Feeling uncomfortable sleeping on your side in late pregnancy?
If you’re in your third trimester and nights are getting harder, you’re not alone. As bump grows, sleep often becomes a juggling act: finding a position that’s safe for you and your baby, while easing back or hip pain, sciatica, rib ache, and heartburn. You’ve probably heard “sleep on your side,” but that’s not always easy when your joints are tender and turning over feels like a workout.
This guide brings together clear, evidence-informed advice on safe sleep positioning in late pregnancy, practical pillow set-ups that actually work, and simple routines to calm your body before bed. You’ll also learn how osteopathy can help relieve discomfort so night-time feels more manageable. If you’re looking for an Osteopath in Angel Islington, Jeremy at jjbosteopath.co.uk is a GOsC-registered, patient-centred osteopath who practices at JJB Osteopath Cura Rooms in Angel, London. He supports people through every stage of pregnancy with gentle, tailored care.
Why sleep becomes tricky in the third trimester
The third trimester brings wonderful anticipation—alongside very real biomechanical changes. Understanding what’s going on helps you choose positions that reduce strain and soothe symptoms:
- Hormonal changes: Relaxin and progesterone soften ligaments. This prepares your pelvis for birth, but can make joints (pelvis, hips, lower back) feel more sensitive or unstable at night.
- Shifting centre of gravity: As your bump grows, your lower back, abdominal wall, and pelvic floor all work harder to support you. Tired tissues often feel achey when you finally rest.
- Diaphragm and rib changes: Your diaphragm sits higher, ribs widen, and breathing mechanics adapt. Rib and upper back discomfort can be more noticeable when lying down.
- Nerves and soft tissue: The sciatic nerve and deep hip rotators (like piriformis) may be irritated by prolonged positions, contributing to sciatica-like pain or leg tingling.
- Circulation and reflux: Blood volume climbs, and your digestive system slows, which can increase nocturnal heartburn and swelling.
All of this means that sleep position matters. A few tweaks—especially with side-lying support—can be surprisingly effective.
Is side-sleeping really safest in late pregnancy?
From around 28 weeks, UK guidance recommends going to sleep on your side—left or right—rather than on your back. This helps reduce pressure on major blood vessels, supporting circulation for you and your baby. If you wake up on your back, don’t worry; simply roll onto your side and settle with support. Both sides are considered safe, so choose the one that feels best. Many people alternate: right side to give the left shoulder or hip a break, left side to ease heartburn.
You don’t need to achieve a perfect 90-degree side-lying position. A gentle tilt (even 30 degrees) can be enough. The key is comfortable, sustainable support so you’re not fighting gravity or waking with numb arms, hip pain, or back stiffness.
Side-lying support: practical set-ups that work
Experiment to find your best fit. Here are tried-and-tested ways to support your body for side sleeping in late pregnancy:
The classic four-pillow set-up
- Pillow between knees and ankles: Keep knees hip-width apart and support your lower leg all the way down to the ankle to reduce twisting through the pelvis and lower back.
- Small wedge or folded towel under bump: This stops the bump pulling forward and eases strain on the abdominal wall and lower back.
- Support behind your back: A firm pillow or long bolster behind your spine lets you relax into a comfortable tilt without rolling flat.
- Head and neck support: Your pillow should fill the space between ear and shoulder so your neck stays neutral, not tilted up or down.
Full-body pillow (C- or U-shaped)
- Hug the top part to support your top arm and shoulder.
- Nestle your bump over the curve of the pillow to reduce pull on your lower back.
- Position the lower section between your knees and ankles to keep the pelvis aligned.
- Use the back curve to stop rolling onto your back.
Wedge combo for gentle tilt
- Place a small wedge or rolled towel under your back to create a slight tilt rather than lying fully on your side.
- Combine with a knee/ankle pillow and a bump wedge for balanced support with less pressure on your shoulder and hip.
Make space for shoulders and hips
- Shoulder: If your shoulder feels squashed, draw your bottom shoulder blade slightly forwards by reaching your bottom arm out under the pillow. A thinner pillow may help if your shoulders are narrow.
- Hips: If the top hip feels heavy, ensure the knee pillow keeps your thighs level. Add a small folded towel under your waist if there’s a gap between waist and mattress.
Support the top arm and chest
- Hug a soft pillow to keep your top shoulder open and reduce neck and upper back tension.
- If you have rib discomfort, place a thin pillow under the upper chest to reduce compression.
Reflux-friendly options
- Slightly elevate the head of the bed with risers, or use a long wedge under the upper body so the incline runs from mid-back to head.
- Sleep on your left side after meals when possible. This may help reduce heartburn for some people.
Temperature, bedding, and mattress tips
- Choose breathable layers and keep the room cool to reduce restlessness.
- If your mattress is very firm, a soft topper can relieve shoulder and hip pressure. If it’s too soft, add firmer support under your lower back or pelvis with a thin foam pad.
Simple routines to prepare your body for sleep
These gentle exercises are pregnancy-friendly for most people and can be done 1–2 hours before bed. Always move within comfort, and if anything feels wrong for you, stop.
1) Calm your breath and soften the ribs (3–4 minutes)
- Sit supported or lie on your side. Place one hand around your lower ribs.
- Inhale through your nose, imagining your breath expanding 360° around your waist and back.
- Exhale slowly through pursed lips. Let shoulders drop away from ears.
- Repeat for 8–10 cycles. This can reduce rib tension and quieten a busy mind.
2) Gentle pelvic rocking (2 minutes)
- Side-lying or seated on a chair, rock the pelvis forward and back within a small, comfortable range.
- Imagine oiling the joints of your lower back and sacrum.
3) Hip openers without strain (3 minutes)
- On your side, with a pillow between knees, slowly lift and lower the top knee a small amount (keep feet together). This engages deep hip stabilisers gently.
- Do 8–10 easy reps each side.
4) Neck and jaw release (2 minutes)
- While seated, gently tuck your chin and lengthen the back of your neck. Avoid big stretches.
- Try a soft jaw release: tongue resting on the roof of your mouth, lips closed, teeth apart. This can ease TMJ tension linked to neck tightness.
5) Hands and feet TLC (2 minutes)
- Roll a small ball under the foot for 30–60 seconds, especially the arch and heel.
- Open and close hands, circle wrists. Helpful if you experience mild pregnancy-related carpal tunnel symptoms at night.
Common late-pregnancy pains and what helps at night
Pelvic girdle pain (PGP)/symphysis pubis pain
- Keep knees level with a firm pillow between knees and ankles to stop the pelvis twisting.
- When turning in bed, keep knees together and roll like a log with support behind your back.
- A folded towel under the waist can reduce strain if your waist “hangs” towards the mattress.
Sciatica and piriformis-type pain
- Avoid deep stretches at night. Instead, use the bump wedge and a pillow behind your back to reduce pull on the hip.
- Place a warm pack (warm, not hot) on the buttock or lower back before bed for 10–15 minutes.
Rib and upper back pain
- Elevate your torso slightly and support the top arm so your chest isn’t rolling forward.
- Practice 360° breathing to reduce rib tension and help your diaphragm work comfortably.
Lower back ache
- Use a small wedge under the bump and a towel roll under the waist to keep your spine in a neutral, supported position.
- Alternate sides through the night to vary the load.
Heartburn
- Keep the upper body gently elevated; avoid large, late meals where possible.
- Left side can be helpful for some. Discuss persistent reflux with your midwife or GP.
How osteopathy can help in late pregnancy
Osteopathy is a gentle, hands-on approach that aims to reduce musculoskeletal tension, improve joint mobility, and support circulation and breathing mechanics. During pregnancy, the goal is to help your body adapt to change with less discomfort—so you can move, rest, and sleep more easily.
As an Osteopath Angel London, Jeremy tailors treatment to your stage of pregnancy and your specific symptoms. Techniques may include:
- Soft-tissue release: Easing tension in the lower back, hips, glutes, pelvic floor-adjacent muscles, and rib cage.
- Gentle joint articulation: Small, comfortable movements to help stiff areas move more freely.
- Positional release: Supporting your body into positions that quieten spasm and reduce guarding.
- Breathing and rib mobility work: Helping the diaphragm and ribs move efficiently to support posture and reduce upper back strain.
- Postural and sleep-position coaching: Practical tips to make your bedtime set-up work for you.
Real-world examples of what patients notice after a few sessions:
- Rolling in bed becomes easier and less painful.
- Reduced sciatic-type leg symptoms due to better hip and pelvic mechanics.
- Calmer rib and upper back tension, making side-sleeping more tolerable.
- Improved confidence with a personalised plan for pillows, wedges, and routines.
While no therapy can promise a completely pain-free pregnancy, many patients find osteopathy reduces discomfort and helps them sleep longer between wake-ups. If you’re searching for a registered osteopath near me in Angel Islington, Jeremy provides safe, evidence-informed care.
What to expect when you see Jeremy at Cura Rooms
Jeremy is a GOsC-registered osteopath practising at Cura Rooms in Angel, London. His approach is calm, person-centred, and collaborative—focused on what matters most to you.
Your first appointment
- Thorough case history: We’ll discuss your pregnancy, symptoms, medical history, and goals. Jeremy screens for anything that needs referral to your midwife or GP.
- Gentle movement assessment: You’ll be guided through comfortable movements to identify what helps and what aggravates, always at your pace.
- Treatment tailored to you: Expect gentle, pregnancy-safe techniques, with plenty of pillows and bolsters so you feel supported. Side-lying, seated, and semi-reclined positions are commonly used.
- Clear plan and home advice: You’ll leave with personalised sleep-position strategies, simple exercises, and pacing tips for your day.
Comfort and consent
You’re in control at every step. Jeremy explains what he’s doing, checks in frequently, and adapts techniques to your comfort. Many patients find this reassuring in late pregnancy, especially when sleep and energy feel fragile.
How many sessions?
It depends on your goals, symptom severity, and how you respond. Some patients feel meaningful relief within 1–3 visits; others prefer periodic care as pregnancy progresses. You’ll discuss this together and review regularly.
When to see a professional urgently
Always contact your midwife, maternity triage, or seek urgent care if you experience any of the following:
- Reduced or changed baby movements.
- Vaginal bleeding or loss of fluid.
- Severe headache, visual changes, sudden swelling of face/hands, or pain under the ribs (possible signs of pre-eclampsia).
- Calf pain, redness, or swelling (possible DVT).
- Chest pain, breathlessness, or fainting.
- Severe back pain with fever, burning on urination, or other signs of infection.
For musculoskeletal discomforts like back pain, pelvic girdle pain, rib pain, or sciatica, osteopathy can be a supportive option alongside your midwifery and obstetric care.
Self-care through the day that makes nights easier
- Alternate positions: Swap between sitting, standing, and short walks. Avoid long periods in one posture that tighten hips and lower back.
- Support standing tasks: A small footstool lets you rest one foot and reduce lumbar load during chores.
- Footwear: Cushioned, supportive shoes help your pelvis and back. Avoid unsupportive sandals if you’re getting hip or back pain.
- Hydration and snacks: Balanced fluids and small, frequent snacks can help energy and reduce reflux spikes.
- Gentle activity: Short walks, pregnancy yoga or Pilates, and pelvic floor awareness can all help—within comfort and with guidance if you have PGP.
- Heat or cool packs: Warmth for muscle tightness; a cool pack can soothe inflamed areas. Protect your skin and limit to 10–15 minutes.
- Support belts: A well-fitted pelvic support belt may reduce PGP during the day. Remove it at night unless advised otherwise.
- Evening wind-down: Dim lights, reduce screens, and add your chosen pre-bed routine. Your nervous system loves consistent cues.
Osteopathy for pelvic girdle pain, sciatica, neck pain, and more
Pregnancy often amplifies patterns that were already there—like old back stiffness, neck pain from desk work, or jaw tension. Jeremy offers osteopathy for pelvic girdle pain, osteopathy for sciatica, and supports related issues like mid-back tightness and TMJ-linked neck discomfort. If you’re searching “Osteopathy for back pain” or “Registered osteopath near me” in Angel Islington, you’ll find a friendly, professional space at Cura Rooms.
Why choose Jeremy at JJB Osteopath Cura Rooms in Angel
- GOsC-registered osteopath: You’re in safe, regulated hands.
- Pregnancy-friendly set-up: Plenty of pillows, wedges, and bolsters for comfortable side-lying and semi-reclined positions.
- Patient-centred approach: Your comfort, values, and goals guide treatment at every step.
- Practical advice you can use: Expect clear, simple guidance to improve nighttime comfort—no jargon.
- Convenient location: Osteopath in Angel Islington, easy to reach across North London.
Frequently asked questions
Is it safe to sleep on my right side in late pregnancy?
Yes. Current guidance supports going to sleep on either side from 28 weeks. Left or right is fine—choose what’s most comfortable. If you wake on your back, simply roll onto your side and use pillows to settle.
How can osteopathy help sciatica in pregnancy?
Osteopathy aims to reduce muscle tension and improve pelvic and hip mechanics that may irritate the sciatic nerve. Gentle techniques, tailored exercises, and sleep-position strategies often combine to ease symptoms and make turning in bed easier. Jeremy will assess what’s driving your discomfort and create a plan for you.
How many pillows do I really need?
It varies. Many find the “four-point” set-up helpful: one for head/neck, one between knees and ankles, a small wedge under the bump, and one behind the back. A full-body (C or U) pillow can simplify this. The goal is balanced support, not the exact number.
When should I see my midwife or GP instead?
If you notice reduced baby movements, bleeding, fluid loss, severe headache or vision changes, chest pain, sudden swelling of face/hands, or calf redness and swelling, seek urgent advice. For musculoskeletal aches and pains, osteopathy can sit alongside your routine maternity care.
Ready for calmer nights? Next steps
If side-sleeping feels like a nightly battle, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Small changes to your set-up can make a big difference—and tailored support can help you get there faster.
To learn how osteopathy could support your sleep and comfort in late pregnancy, book with Jeremy—Osteopath Angel London—at JJB Osteopath Cura Rooms in Angel. Visit jjbosteopath.co.uk to schedule your appointment or arrange a friendly call to discuss your needs. If you’re searching for a registered osteopath near me, you’ll find a welcoming, professional clinic right here in Angel Islington.
Sleep may not be perfect in the third trimester, but with supportive positioning, simple routines, and the right hands-on care, your nights can become calmer and more restorative—so you can focus on the exciting weeks ahead.

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